{"id":1345,"date":"2026-05-08T11:49:09","date_gmt":"2026-05-08T11:49:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intuipro.eu\/?p=1345"},"modified":"2026-09-27T09:55:36","modified_gmt":"2026-09-27T09:55:36","slug":"how-do-i-ask-for-more-when-giving-less","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intuipro.eu\/pl\/2026\/05\/08\/how-do-i-ask-for-more-when-giving-less\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do I Ask for More When Giving Less"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"background:#F5F0E8;border-left:3px solid #6B3F5A;padding:12px 18px;margin-bottom:32px;border-radius:0 4px 4px 0;\">\n<p style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:13px;color:#5A4E3C;margin:0;\">Real Leadership Dilemmas \u00b7 #1 &nbsp;\u00b7&nbsp; Originally published on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/kasia-biernackaa\/\" style=\"color:#6B3F5A;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LinkedIn<\/a> \u00b7 May 2025<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"font-style:italic;font-size:18px;color:#5A4E3C;\">The cost-cutting + ownership paradox<\/p>\n<p>This is not a theoretical problem. It is what CEOs, founders, and managers are dealing with right now.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border-left:3px solid rgba(107,63,90,0.4);padding:12px 20px;margin:24px 0;background:#F5F0E8;border-radius:0 4px 4px 0;font-style:italic;color:#5A4E3C;\"><p>&#8220;We have cut budgets. Paused bonuses. Scaled back benefits. But we still need people to care. Take initiative. Act like they own it.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>You can feel people pulling back. But this is not a moment where &#8220;just doing the job&#8221; is enough. So what now?<\/p>\n<h2>Step 1: Be honest. Like, really honest.<\/h2>\n<p>If you are asking people to give more when they are getting less, you have to lead better. Full stop.<\/p>\n<p>A quick check \u2014 answer these honestly:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Have you explained what is going on? Or just thrown around words like &#8220;challenges&#8221; and hoped people would understand?<\/li>\n<li>Have you shown the numbers or context behind the cuts? Or are people filling the blanks with fear and gossip?<\/li>\n<li>Have you said clearly what actually matters right now? Or are people stuck juggling fourteen &#8220;top&#8221; priorities?<\/li>\n<li>Have you had direct conversations about each person&#8217;s role in this phase? Or are you hoping they figure it out?<\/li>\n<li>Are you visible, real, and accessible? Or hiding behind finance, HR, and vague newsletter updates?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>The neuroscience behind this:<\/strong> The brain hates uncertainty. When people do not know what is expected, what is happening, or what to focus on, the amygdala \u2014 the brain&#8217;s threat detector \u2014 kicks in. The result is tension, withdrawal, and lower problem-solving capacity. This is not HR theory. It is biology.<\/p>\n<h2>Step 2: Introduce &#8220;Effort Clarity&#8221; meetings<\/h2>\n<p>People burn out most when they do not know what to drop.<\/p>\n<p>Hold 20-minute check-ins with each key team member and ask only three questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;What are you working on right now?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;What can we pause or remove for the next 30 days?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Where do you need more support or faster decisions?&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You will be surprised how much useless effort is hiding in plain sight.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The neuroscience:<\/strong> Cognitive overload shuts down decision-making. When people juggle too many priorities, the prefrontal cortex \u2014 responsible for focus, planning, and reasoning \u2014 gets overwhelmed. The result is mental fatigue, poor prioritisation, mistakes, and emotional reactivity. Removing things from the list is not kindness. It is performance management.<\/p>\n<h2>Step 3: Spell out what ownership actually looks like now<\/h2>\n<p>Do not say &#8220;take ownership&#8221; and expect magic. Are you actually enabling it? That is where most leaders drop the ball.<\/p>\n<p>People do not take ownership when:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>They do not know which decisions they can make on their own<\/li>\n<li>They are afraid of stepping on someone&#8217;s toes<\/li>\n<li>Managers still review or override everything<\/li>\n<li>Information is only shared on a &#8220;need to know&#8221; basis<\/li>\n<li>No one tells them what success actually looks like<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ownership is not about attitude. It is about having the space, the information, and the safety to act. If that is missing, people will not take the lead \u2014 and that is on leadership, not them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The neuroscience:<\/strong> When the brain feels in control, it switches into problem-solving mode. More autonomy equals more dopamine equals more motivation. Nobody wants to be micromanaged \u2014 especially when they are already under pressure.<\/p>\n<h2>The bottom line<\/h2>\n<p>You cannot demand more from people without giving them something real to work with. Not empty promises \u2014 but clarity. Not pressure \u2014 but partnership. Not slogans \u2014 but truth.<\/p>\n<p>That is what leadership looks like when things get hard. And if you get that part right, people will surprise you \u2014 even when resources are tight.<\/p>\n<div style=\"background:#F5F0E8;border:1px solid rgba(107,63,90,0.2);border-radius:6px;padding:24px 28px;margin-top:40px;\">\n<p style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:13px;color:#5A4E3C;margin:0 0 10px 0;\"><strong style=\"color:#2C2416;\">Je\u015bli to do Ciebie trafi\u0142o \u2014<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:13px;color:#5A4E3C;margin:0 0 14px 0;\">Diagnostyka Drain Energii\u2122 identyfikuje dok\u0142adny wzorzec pod spodem \u2014 w 12 minut. Bo wiedzie\u0107, co Ci\u0119 wyczerpuje, to pierwszy krok do prawdziwej zmiany.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/intuipro.eu\/pl\/diagnostic\/\" style=\"display:inline-block;background:#6B3F5A;color:#fff;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:12px;letter-spacing:0.07em;padding:10px 22px;border-radius:3px;text-decoration:none;\">Zr\u00f3b diagnostyk\u0119 \u2192<\/a>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:12px;color:#8C7B6A;margin-top:32px;border-top:1px solid rgba(107,63,90,0.15);padding-top:16px;\"><em>Kasia Biernacka jest psycholo\u017ck\u0105 organizacji i doradczyni\u0105 ds. przyw\u00f3dztwa z ponad 20-letnim mi\u0119dzynarodowym do\u015bwiadczeniem. Pracuje z ambitnymi profesjonalistami i organizacjami w obszarze energii, przyw\u00f3dztwa i trwa\u0142ej efektywno\u015bci. Mieszka w Belgii. <a href=\"https:\/\/intuipro.eu\/pl\/\" style=\"color:#6B3F5A;\">intuipro.eu<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Real Leadership Dilemmas \u00b7 #1 &nbsp;\u00b7&nbsp; Originally published on LinkedIn \u00b7 May 2025 The cost-cutting + ownership paradox This is not a theoretical problem. It is what CEOs, founders, and managers are dealing with right now. &#8220;We have cut budgets. Paused bonuses. Scaled back benefits. But we still need people to care. Take initiative. 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